"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I always thought the reason most guys are in sex-less miserable marriages is because they're beta

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This was my point and is what I can relate to most from your story...

but an entertaining story it was. I love hearing about experiences from the 'battle scarred vets.'
Thanks man!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This was my point and is what I can relate to most from your story...

but an entertaining story it was. I love hearing about experiences from the 'battle scarred vets.'
I think allot of us can. It's all part of the orchestration you mentioned. Feminism says, that women can't be happy tending to the home, cooking, cleaning and raising our children, while we are out bread winning. No, feminism preaches that a women would be much happier seeking equality in a male dominated workforce. Compound that with government mismanaging our tax dollars and it's almost impossible to sustain a household, without both the man and woman working jobs.
 

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but even my 6'3 Italian, jacked, manly but super chill, decent looking sales manager who makes 180K a year says his wife has become horrible after marriage/kids, says she bitches over tons of extremely petty things, she has zero sex drive. She is Polish I think.


Seriously, is it even possible to get married/have kids and still be happy and have a normal sex life nowadays? Why does everybody get married when it's an easy road to complete misery?
Yes, with a fat chick. Not sure about the happiness part though. Perhaps get some genes inserted to you so that you find fat girls hot as hell
 

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Y’all are on some bullchit with this feminism boogeyman chit. If I’m married I want my wife to be making the income she deserves because that’s money IM losing if she’s not making the money she should be making. To hell with all of y’all basement reactionaries that want to go back to the days of smallpox, working to death on a farm or some Victorian smog filled factory, feudalism, and constant warfare over some succession war because y’all think it would be easier to get some Pucci.

Back to the point lol. The issue with marriage is that you are assuming things will remain constant and work out over a large period of time and that’s just against nature in general. Yes, there are ******* exceptions/outliers just like there will always lottery winners but you are a fool to try and predict the next 60 years of your life lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The sex stops when the man stops trying and the woman's pvssy is no longer tingling. A man needs to make it abundantly clear that sex is non-negotiable. He also needs to stay focused on his fun attitude, goals, career, wife and kids. And it should be in that order...
 
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