logicallefty
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Thanks man!This was my point and is what I can relate to most from your story...
but an entertaining story it was. I love hearing about experiences from the 'battle scarred vets.'
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thanks man!This was my point and is what I can relate to most from your story...
but an entertaining story it was. I love hearing about experiences from the 'battle scarred vets.'
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think allot of us can. It's all part of the orchestration you mentioned. Feminism says, that women can't be happy tending to the home, cooking, cleaning and raising our children, while we are out bread winning. No, feminism preaches that a women would be much happier seeking equality in a male dominated workforce. Compound that with government mismanaging our tax dollars and it's almost impossible to sustain a household, without both the man and woman working jobs.This was my point and is what I can relate to most from your story...
but an entertaining story it was. I love hearing about experiences from the 'battle scarred vets.'
I meant that sincerely. I appreciate what you've gone through, and it's guys like you, years ago, that gave me a heads up to the possibilities of the game.Thanks man!
Yes, with a fat chick. Not sure about the happiness part though. Perhaps get some genes inserted to you so that you find fat girls hot as hellbut even my 6'3 Italian, jacked, manly but super chill, decent looking sales manager who makes 180K a year says his wife has become horrible after marriage/kids, says she bitches over tons of extremely petty things, she has zero sex drive. She is Polish I think.
Seriously, is it even possible to get married/have kids and still be happy and have a normal sex life nowadays? Why does everybody get married when it's an easy road to complete misery?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.