"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I always quit get lazy after a week or so and when i do i dont last long...

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I dont know why it is but i always make up my mind to work out so when i do ill workout and keep working out but when a week or 2 passes by i get lazy and stop for like a month then i start again, how can i get rid of this problem?

And when im working out i only last for like 30 minutes why is that i know that i can go longer i would like to workout like 1 or 2 hrs or in between non less, but everytime i look at the clock it seems like time aint moving.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Start with the end in mind as they say.

You've got to know WHY you really want to do it. Focus on that. Think of how confident you will be if you are in shape. How girls will drool all over you. And how you feel when you have actually achieved something.

It's like anything else. Make a plan, commit to completing it.

Now, the other thing is KNOWLEDGE of your subject. Really get into reading about training, talk to people about their sucesses and how they achieved them.

You don't say what training, but if it's weights your don't want to be training for more than 45mins anyway and you can easily make huge progress on a 3 day a week program. So it ain't that bad after all.

Most people don't know this (or don't want to accept it) if you are truely training full bore for a month to 6 weeks, you are gonna stop progressing. That's probably is why you stop because you get disheartened when the gains dry up.

The answer is to take a few days off. Drop the weight down about 10% on everything and start again, with the same lifts.

Next month you will easily surpass your last top poundages.

Why not start a log here, that will give you added motivation

:)
 

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yeah thanx, i think u described my problem it seems like when i reach a certain point i stop seeing progress and i just quit.

so 45 minutes a day?? shoot that sounds great.
 

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NO!

For weights 3-4 days a week max. Other days rest or do calisthenics or 20mins aerobics.

Think long term. Do too much and you'll go stale and quit. Have a plan for the next year, break that down to a 3month plan.

Read up on weight training, ignore bodybuilding mags advice, it's all fairy tale stuff.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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