"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i always get this respone ... "can i bring my ______ with me ?"

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im just curious... whenever i tried to ask a girl to go out with me for the first time... this patterns always shows up almost everytime

"can i bring my ____ with me"
"anyone else coming with us?"
"im not used in this kinda things... can i bring my bff`s ??"




any solution on this kind of things? , seems something is wrong why i always get this kinda response from woman i try to ask.... one pattern i thought of is theyre somewhat my friends , workmates , which is somewhat close to me? is this a clue that im in their friendzone barrier??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How are you asking them out?
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last one with my workmate... "hey , payday this friday right? wanna go to "banchetto"<a restaurant near our place> , they said the food there is really good..."

something along those lines...
 
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How are you asking them out?
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That's what I was thinking......how was he asking them out,and more importantly.....WHO was he asking out.


Is it girls he doesn't know,like a cold approach,or someone he's already known for a while.

If it's someone he's known for a while,it could be a possible friendzone thing,they definately don't want anything romantic/sexual happening on the date,and are trying to invite a friend along to MAKE SURE nothing happens.


If it's a new girl....someone he doesn't yet know,it's a lack of COMFORT.

You rushed the pickup,went from "hi" to asking her out too fast. Thing is though,most new girls don't say that when guys ask them out.


Once you say which one it is,a new girl or an aquaintance,then it'll be easier to help advise you.
 
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Igetit! said:
That's what I was thinking......how was he asking them out,and more importantly.....WHO was he asking out.


Is it girls he doesn't know,like a cold approach,or someone he's already known for a while.

If it's someone he's known for a while,it could be a possible friendzone thing,they definately don't want anything romantic/sexual happening on the date,and are trying to invite a friend along to MAKE SURE nothing happens.


If it's a new girl....someone he doesn't yet know,it's a lack of COMFORT.

You rushed the pickup,went from "hi" to asking her out too fast. Thing is though,most new girls don't say that when guys ask them out.


Once you say which one it is,a new girl or an aquaintance,then it'll be easier to help advise you.
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its a workmate of mine... 1 is my close friend... another one i met online
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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its a workmate of mine... 1 is my close friend... another one i met online
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Igetit! nailed it. Nothing you can do with the close friend. For the online chick, just give her a call and have a normal conversation with her. Towards the end - Hey ever been to Make-out Plaza? No? I'm free Thursday and Saturday we should go!
 
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Every girl who said that to me wasnt that interested. Especially not on the first date / meet up. Those that were wanted just 1 on 1 time. The former always wanted to be just friends. The latter would keep their phone in their hand and keep tabs in case they needed help / I was a homicidal maniac. But it was still just us 2, on an actual date. The others just wanted to hang out with me and their friends. Like, going to a party or bowling alley. They'd also say things like "lols i want my bff dawny to *** just friends lol for sure". Garbage ass ho's.
 
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You're getting this pattern because these girls aren't comfortable or they're otherwise just not that into you.

Case closed. Reality bites.
 
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Bringing friends is a girl's passive-aggressive BS way of telling you she's not interested while stringing you along as a gay best friend.

Get the message and drop them if they do that. Then move on to the next girl that wants you all to herself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I had that happen. She wouldn't meet me without my friend. When I told him he said, "What the phuck would I want to be there for!?!" That confirmed her interest and/or comfort was low, low, low. Next!

Just pass, and go for what you want, a 1 on 1, a real date, not a free pass to be one of the girls. Phuck that.
 
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