"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i a gal, wat does guy look out in a gal..

shelen

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my frien always use straight-forward n wacky to describe me
sometimes... even, sth i dun like.. e.g. unpredicable
does gals like gals to be even more unpredictable than normal already super-unpredictable gal?

thx for replying~*muacks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gonzalo

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We like girls who can speak English.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alphathree

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Don't flame (her?). (She's?) probably only 12 years old or something.
 

salsipuedes

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Originally posted by Alphathree
Don't flame (her?). (She's?) probably only 12 years old or something.
Actually, shes probably from The Philipines or something.
 

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Originally posted by shelen
my frien always use straight-forward n wacky to describe me
sometimes... even, sth i dun like.. e.g. unpredicable
does gals like gals to be even more unpredictable than normal already super-unpredictable gal?

thx for replying~*muacks
Translation:

My friends always say I'm straight forward and wacky. They even gone as far as to call me unpredictable, and other things I don't like. Do guys like girls to be really unpredictable, moreso than "normal" girls?
 

ScrewIt

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Re: Re: i a gal, wat does guy look out in a gal..

Originally posted by Phantasmal
Translation:

My friends always say I'm straight forward and wacky. They even gone as far as to call me unpredictable, and other things I don't like. Do guys like girls to be really unpredictable, moreso than "normal" girls?
A miracle! you speak the language. A messenger has arrived!
 

diplomatic_lies

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Most people born after 1990 write like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shelen

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ty- means tao yan

oh my god.. I'm not from what philipness??
but i will try to minimize talkin in short-forms used in singapore.. this is call SINGLISH anyway.. singapore english

but.. guys~ u r so cool!
Especially phantasmal.. he even bothered to translate it.. thx!
 

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Yes, guys do like girls to be unpredictable so it's not too boring. But there are good unpredictabilities and bad unpredictabilities. An example of a good unpredictabilities is say I come home from work and my gf cook me a special meal and wears something very hot. That's good. But a bad one is when I come home and she brings home another guy and say "honey, let's do a threesome."
 

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Originally posted by shelen
my frien always use straight-forward n wacky to describe me
sometimes... even, sth i dun like.. e.g. unpredicable
does gals like gals to be even more unpredictable than normal already super-unpredictable gal?

thx for replying~*muacks
Wow. I'd LOVE to see how much you could fit into a haiku.

Be unpredictable, but surprise him in a GOOD way. Surprising him by pissing him off will just ruin everything.
 
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