“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I’m the flake

Murk

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When I arrange dates I always get in over my head, I say yes to easily and always flake some girls.

I can’t remember being flaked on, I only seem to get girls pissed off at me for flaking.

Anyone else?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

marmel75

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When I arrange dates I always get in over my head, I say yes to easily and always flake some girls.

I can’t remember being flaked on, I only seem to get girls pissed off at me for flaking.

Anyone else?
Nope...a man is only as good as his word.
 

backseatjuan

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No. I don't flake. I always show up on time too, to the minute, and they either show up late or sometimes flake. Flaking on a girl sounds kinda feminine, it wouldn't work for me.
 

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Nah
I'm an advocate of giving people a taste of their own medicine.
I'd imagine there are women out there that follow your lead and mirror your actions, so it's best not to put disrespectful thoughts into their heads.
 

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If she´s not a sure lay and I have something better to do, yes, I´ll flake for sure.
 
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