She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
1. maybeEspi said:There are most likely as many solutions as there are possible reasons for your fatigue. I, however, suggest you try sleeping more than 6 hours. Aim for 7-8. Or, take a mid-day, 20-minute nap, if possible. Also, visit your physician and tell him what's up. Perhaps he can diagnose your symptoms.
Are you overtraining?
Are you experiencing high stress levels?
Have you recently ended a relationship, expereinced a loss of a loved one, etc.?
Oh come on masturbating more than once a week isn't going to leave you yawning all day longChrizZ said:I´m 17 and I´m always feeling tired although I get enough sleep. I only masturbate once a week
What does your training routine look like mate?1. maybe
Well, having just left all your friends, you could well be emotionally stressed out2. no
3. yes, I had to leave all my friends in the US after I came back to Germany
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
no, I have perfect weight and I´m muscular.bmxcetera said:Are you overweight, even slightly? I weighed 235 pounds at my heaviest and was tired ALL the time. Now I weigh 216 and I'm not nearly tired as much as I was during my overweight days.