"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Hypothetically Speaking

idhp

New Member
Joined
Jul 5, 2021
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Age
36
If one was, say 30 years old, and only had been on a handful of dates, and nothing more. Is trying to be a DJ something worth pursuing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Lookatu

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2017
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
3,889
Age
53
That's the best time to be a DJ IMO.

Remember, being a DJ is no longer one dimensional like in the past. Being a DJ will improve your life in all areas and not just with women.
 

BMX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2004
Messages
1,480
Reaction score
413
Location
Everett
You are good to go. Write some goals and plans down and pursue them all with vigor. Don't stop holding yourself accountable.
 

Serenity

Moderator
Joined
Aug 19, 2013
Messages
5,150
Reaction score
5,057
Age
35
Location
Eye of the storm
I'm 30 very soon, I don't see why not? It's the very limited experience that would be the obstacle, not the age. One could be a DJ at any age.

It's never too late and with at least average intelligence and courage it shouldn't even take long to get good at it.
 

Paper Crane

Banned
Joined
Mar 6, 2021
Messages
267
Reaction score
258
Age
30
You don't try to be a DJ. You either are heading into that route or you're not. Being a player is not for everyone-- and tahts just the facts. More men than ever are more prone to acting like women these days when it comes to dating and its blatantly obvious.

If you're in your 30's and you are just touching the surface of casual dating, then its going to be a rough road getting past the realms of emotional maturity, and learning curves of game, and the experience that comes with time and activity.

But then again, my definition of a DJ is a lot different than some.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top