Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hypnosis: Help

Smooth Player 056

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I found an ad in the phone book it reads

Hypnosis
-phobias
abuses
smoking
weight
anxiety
intimacy
self esteem

It says Marie Farban, MFT
Insurance accepted
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Im going to sneak there without my parents knowledge.

What is a MFT?

Does a place like this accept plain cash?

About how much do you think this would cost?

Do you need parental consent?

Love,
Smooth
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MFT stands for Marriage and Family Therapist. I don't know about your other questions.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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I dont know, sounds like it could cost a few hundred.

How old are you exactly?

I think most places like this are scams. If you just download some videos on NLP and Hypnosis you can do this stuff for yourself.
 

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I am 16 years old....I am trying to eliminate comletely my social anxiety. I feel that is the only part lacking in my game. A lot of times when large number of people look at me i get really uncofortable....especially when im runnning routines.

I think im gonna call....do u need parental permission though?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I dont think you do need parental consent since its not real medicine or anything, if anything just play it cool and go to the place or sign up or whatever and don't say anything about your age unless they ask.

I don't think you can ever totally eliminate social anxiety. I mean you could get it down to a minimum but it will always be there. The only way to really minimize it is to be in that situation a lot and get used to it. I think the reason you may have it right now is that you're just starting out and are new at being in the middle of things.

Once you've done it for a while you will get used to it and then your anxiety will fade as you will feel comfortable in that environment.
 
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