"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hypnosis: Help

Smooth Player 056

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I found an ad in the phone book it reads

Hypnosis
-phobias
abuses
smoking
weight
anxiety
intimacy
self esteem

It says Marie Farban, MFT
Insurance accepted
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Im going to sneak there without my parents knowledge.

What is a MFT?

Does a place like this accept plain cash?

About how much do you think this would cost?

Do you need parental consent?

Love,
Smooth
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MFT stands for Marriage and Family Therapist. I don't know about your other questions.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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I dont know, sounds like it could cost a few hundred.

How old are you exactly?

I think most places like this are scams. If you just download some videos on NLP and Hypnosis you can do this stuff for yourself.
 

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I am 16 years old....I am trying to eliminate comletely my social anxiety. I feel that is the only part lacking in my game. A lot of times when large number of people look at me i get really uncofortable....especially when im runnning routines.

I think im gonna call....do u need parental permission though?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I dont think you do need parental consent since its not real medicine or anything, if anything just play it cool and go to the place or sign up or whatever and don't say anything about your age unless they ask.

I don't think you can ever totally eliminate social anxiety. I mean you could get it down to a minimum but it will always be there. The only way to really minimize it is to be in that situation a lot and get used to it. I think the reason you may have it right now is that you're just starting out and are new at being in the middle of things.

Once you've done it for a while you will get used to it and then your anxiety will fade as you will feel comfortable in that environment.
 
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