"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Husband lets fat wife date other men: "My confidence has gone through the roof"
- Thread starter MatureDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hmmm..... I wonder if her self esteem starting taking a hit after she quit on her marriage. I wonder if it was years and years since she had shown her husband any real attention and guess what, he cheated. He finally get frustrated enough that he found some other interested women that showed him attention. Now Godzilla here takes that as a get out of jail free card and proceeds to simply blow every guy she can get her lips on.
I wonder who the real problem is in this situation?
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zekko
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But she's confident! Confidence is sexy, that's why she's getting so many men. That's all you need to make you attractive, confidence!my opinion: A butterball like this should not have success in dating.
That's what everyone is looking for, confidence!
mrgoodstuff
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Do what shes doing and you too will have it. The difference btw men and women is even a whale like this can propose head or sex and over half of men will take it. It means nothing. Wjy dp they get so excited about something thats all around them. Qnd most of these men wouldnt date her or be her man. Theyd just fvck.But she's confident! Confidence is sexy, that's why she's getting so many men. That's all you need to make you attractive, confidence!
That's what everyone is looking for, confidence!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No need 2 explain it if u r not.