"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hurry...does this girl want me?

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Disclaimer:Ok so Im in a LTR like for 3 years and I live with my gf. I caught her makin out with some dude a long time ago. We got through it eventually cause its not too big of a deal but some revenge would be nice.

Last night I went out when my gf was home doing some stuff for work . Me and my friend went out and he ran into some girls he knew. One of them was pretty hot and I vaguely remember meeting her about a year ago but she remembered me. My friend messed around with her one time over a year ago..he has some other girl now.

So we start talking and I neg her here and there yadda yadda yadda. She said something like she likes to sew sh1t, I was clowning on her cause i would never expect a hot girl to admit that.

My gf is going on a camping trip tongith and she just left. So last night I was like im going to get this girl to hang out with me tomorrow night (tonight). So up front I was like yea my gf blah blah to disarm her. Then I asked her oh so whats up with your bf? not knowing she even had one I just assumed cause shes very good looking and cool. Shes like oh hes a d1ck im done with him cause he said this and that blah blah blah been with him 5 months etc. Then I was like well you should come meet me up tomorrow I got a friend to introduce you to hes cool yadda yadda. I know she has no trouble getting a guy cause all night dudes were checking her out and my friend was telling me. Then I was like "ill give you my number so you can call me tomorrow but you gotta promise that you wont harrass me, stalk me, and call me late night" immediately she was like oh thats not me blah blah and handed her phone to me with a quickness. I put my number in and later on during the night she texted me "your friend is looking for you" so I had her number. later on she was a little touchy but not too much. I went a little playful kino on her.

The night ended i was fvcked up and i texted her "seamstress you better come out tomorrow after your concert but only if you promise to act cool."
no reply last night.

Today I got a text frm her..."so where do you think your going tonight?" i said blah blah. She replied and said ill call u after and well meet up then i said aite seamstress. Just wanted to throw in a quick little neg.

So I dont know what to think, does she wanna chill with me or just see who I want to introduce her too? I mean I totally disarmed her, maybe too much I dont know, but I can tell she digs me. So how should I play it? I probalby will be chillin with dude I said I would introduce her too tonight before she meets me up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just because a situation turned out that your ugly HB 2 was fvcking other dudes behind your back for months doesnt mean the same for me.
 

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^^ lol.

But anyways you will see when she calls you tonight.
I think the last text before you went in the house was unneccissary, and me personally after I gave her the invite would have used the social proof she gave to talk to other girls, but that's just me..
 

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She's probably gonna **** the dude you're introducing her too, lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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^ haha.

Its like you've completely disqualified yourself, the only way I can see you getting out of this is if you meet up with her, tell her the guys coming, but he never shows up.

Ever then it looks really crap on your behalf because its an obvious setup.

Or you could get your mate to play along, be a complete douche bag, then maybe she will go with you instead.

Haha I dunno, its hard to tell if shes like playing along with it to meet you again or really is looking forward to the setup from just a few texts and the limited info you can give over the net.
 

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Just say the dude couldn't make it - "And so it seems it is just me and you!".

Make your move..and go for the kiss!

...and only be loyal to your wife and dog!
 

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Ok so I had a hunch she was an aw and she is. I texted her ewhen I got out.
Me when's ur sh1t over?
Her idk the main show just started. Why?
Me just got out txt me when ur dine or something
Her ok will do

So no txt or call. I am for sure not inititiating. That's some aw sh1t to me. I know she's got dudes txting her or whatever just like I am. God I knew it. Well atleast I got a girl at home I can go to. I suspect a text tomorrow or sometime in the future from her. Every girl I deal with is an aw even my gf. Its sickening. I gotta play so many dam games all the time its ridiculous.
 

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Any other similar experiences what did u do to get her afterwards.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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