"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WaterTiger

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You: Ever been to Paris?
Her: No.
You: Me neither! See how much we have in common?

Ask her wierd or current event things, make it C&F if you can:
What's you favorite jell-o flavor?
What do you think about that article in Newsweek?
Do you collect stamps?
Do you follow nude sports?

Something that will get a laugh out of her.
 

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chancer357 said:
Got any good ones to ask that everyone else won't be?
Never plan ahead, just relax.
Let her open her big mouth as usual and if you are lucky to get a word in, follow from there.
 

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edmond said:
Never plan ahead, just relax.
Let her open her big mouth as usual and if you are lucky to get a word in, follow from there.
Most of the time I hear from women that they talk to much because the guy that they're with was such a bad conversationalist that they felt that they had to do all of the talking. Women feel that the guy isn't into them if they don't interact with them.

I don't have any canned questions though. If I'm out with a specific woman, I'm there for a reason and that's what I talk about. There's some reason why I either wanted to get to know her or some reason why I wanted to go to where ever I decided to take her. That's what I talk about.
 

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Ask her if she likes to suck d1ck. When she gives you that shocked look and says NO, give her the most serious look in your life and say "Why not"

Wait for about a second, then burst out laughing. She'll be putty in your hands after that and it will make the BJ later even more enjoyable.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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