"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hurry Date Questions?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WaterTiger

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You: Ever been to Paris?
Her: No.
You: Me neither! See how much we have in common?

Ask her wierd or current event things, make it C&F if you can:
What's you favorite jell-o flavor?
What do you think about that article in Newsweek?
Do you collect stamps?
Do you follow nude sports?

Something that will get a laugh out of her.
 

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chancer357 said:
Got any good ones to ask that everyone else won't be?
Never plan ahead, just relax.
Let her open her big mouth as usual and if you are lucky to get a word in, follow from there.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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edmond said:
Never plan ahead, just relax.
Let her open her big mouth as usual and if you are lucky to get a word in, follow from there.
Most of the time I hear from women that they talk to much because the guy that they're with was such a bad conversationalist that they felt that they had to do all of the talking. Women feel that the guy isn't into them if they don't interact with them.

I don't have any canned questions though. If I'm out with a specific woman, I'm there for a reason and that's what I talk about. There's some reason why I either wanted to get to know her or some reason why I wanted to go to where ever I decided to take her. That's what I talk about.
 

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Ask her if she likes to suck d1ck. When she gives you that shocked look and says NO, give her the most serious look in your life and say "Why not"

Wait for about a second, then burst out laughing. She'll be putty in your hands after that and it will make the BJ later even more enjoyable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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