"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hurry Date Questions?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You: Ever been to Paris?
Her: No.
You: Me neither! See how much we have in common?

Ask her wierd or current event things, make it C&F if you can:
What's you favorite jell-o flavor?
What do you think about that article in Newsweek?
Do you collect stamps?
Do you follow nude sports?

Something that will get a laugh out of her.
 
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chancer357 said:
Got any good ones to ask that everyone else won't be?
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Never plan ahead, just relax.
Let her open her big mouth as usual and if you are lucky to get a word in, follow from there.
 
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edmond said:
Never plan ahead, just relax.
Let her open her big mouth as usual and if you are lucky to get a word in, follow from there.
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Most of the time I hear from women that they talk to much because the guy that they're with was such a bad conversationalist that they felt that they had to do all of the talking. Women feel that the guy isn't into them if they don't interact with them.

I don't have any canned questions though. If I'm out with a specific woman, I'm there for a reason and that's what I talk about. There's some reason why I either wanted to get to know her or some reason why I wanted to go to where ever I decided to take her. That's what I talk about.
 
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Ask her if she likes to suck d1ck. When she gives you that shocked look and says NO, give her the most serious look in your life and say "Why not"

Wait for about a second, then burst out laughing. She'll be putty in your hands after that and it will make the BJ later even more enjoyable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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