"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hungry eyes/ desire

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Hey,

I am a recovering AFC. Recently have been embracing my “masculinity” and doing lots of inner work with the use of NMMNG. Looks like a great forum, and I would like to hear some of your opinions.

Recently I was in the gym, feeling exceptionally good, and getting an awesome workout. An attractive brunette walks into the gym. I am facing her doing some arm presses. As she walks by I bluntly show my hungry eyes towards her. The look lasted 5 seconds. In that time frame she managed to look over twice. I did not even blink, and continued with my adoration. After the 5 seconds I slowly look away and continue with my own business. Later on I saw her looking over again, while I was working out. The silent communication felt great, I was not least concerned with outcome. And was enjoying what I saw. I think she obviously felt good about my look, made her feel attractive. She was not all done up or anything, but she still looked great.

What do you guys think about showing hungry eyes to attractive women? Opinions? When I say desire, it is not constant creepy look, where it is overwhelming for a woman. I am talking about intermitted hungry eyes. I.e. giving them a piece, and having them yearning for more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think I get what you're saying. Dude, girls are good with that sort of thing. I've had girls tell me all the time that they can tell when I'm thinking dirty thoughts about them. lol! Apparently, I get some sort of twinkle or sparkle in my eyes and they know something is up.

During flirty conversations, it usually goes something like this...
girl: She'll usually tilt her head to the side with a curious look, you know scrunched up eyebrows. Then that's usually followed by a knowing smile.
me: (thinking to myself) 'damn she can tell'. So I'll just smile at that point.
girl: what?! (knowing full well what's going on)
me: lmao

Its kinda funny, 'cause I don't have to say anything and they know whats up.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
I think I get what you're saying. Dude, girls are good with that sort of thing. I've had girls tell me all the time that they can tell when I'm thinking dirty thoughts about them. lol! Apparently, I get some sort of twinkle or sparkle in my eyes and they know something is up.

During flirty conversations, it usually goes something like this...
girl: She'll usually tilt her head to the side with a curious look, you know scrunched up eyebrows. Then that's usually followed by a knowing smile.
me: (thinking to myself) 'damn she can tell'. So I'll just smile at that point.
girl: what?! (knowing full well what's going on)
me: lmao

Its kinda funny, 'cause I don't have to say anything and they know whats up.
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you say lmao in real life? :confused:





To the thread starter: just stare at them, make eye contact and keep it. they will know youre checking them out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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or she might nave been thinking your a psycho, and wanted to make sure you didn't jump her from behind...... You keep looking at chicks like that who arn't attraced to you right from the start, you'll end up creeping them out.

one way to find out; DID SHE SMILE BACK?????
 
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or she might nave been thinking your a psycho, and wanted to make sure you didn't jump her from behind...... You keep looking at chicks like that who arn't attraced to you right from the start, you'll end up creeping them out.

one way to find out; DID SHE SMILE BACK?????
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Don't know about psycho part, and its not my business what they think about me. If a girl does not like me from the start, I am not going to bother with her. Why bother with all the extra work. Can't fight nature, well you can, but you will lose.

No smile. But I think I should of smiled first. Kinda hard though when I am pushing weights. LOL! She gave me a look of curiousity I guess.

Made a girl smile at the drive through though. One small step at a time for me here. DarkLight that is an insightful thread, makes sense to me, I think I am on the right track here. Does not make sense to hide my attraction.
 
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