Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hungry eyes/ desire

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Hey,

I am a recovering AFC. Recently have been embracing my “masculinity” and doing lots of inner work with the use of NMMNG. Looks like a great forum, and I would like to hear some of your opinions.

Recently I was in the gym, feeling exceptionally good, and getting an awesome workout. An attractive brunette walks into the gym. I am facing her doing some arm presses. As she walks by I bluntly show my hungry eyes towards her. The look lasted 5 seconds. In that time frame she managed to look over twice. I did not even blink, and continued with my adoration. After the 5 seconds I slowly look away and continue with my own business. Later on I saw her looking over again, while I was working out. The silent communication felt great, I was not least concerned with outcome. And was enjoying what I saw. I think she obviously felt good about my look, made her feel attractive. She was not all done up or anything, but she still looked great.

What do you guys think about showing hungry eyes to attractive women? Opinions? When I say desire, it is not constant creepy look, where it is overwhelming for a woman. I am talking about intermitted hungry eyes. I.e. giving them a piece, and having them yearning for more.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think I get what you're saying. Dude, girls are good with that sort of thing. I've had girls tell me all the time that they can tell when I'm thinking dirty thoughts about them. lol! Apparently, I get some sort of twinkle or sparkle in my eyes and they know something is up.

During flirty conversations, it usually goes something like this...
girl: She'll usually tilt her head to the side with a curious look, you know scrunched up eyebrows. Then that's usually followed by a knowing smile.
me: (thinking to myself) 'damn she can tell'. So I'll just smile at that point.
girl: what?! (knowing full well what's going on)
me: lmao

Its kinda funny, 'cause I don't have to say anything and they know whats up.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
I think I get what you're saying. Dude, girls are good with that sort of thing. I've had girls tell me all the time that they can tell when I'm thinking dirty thoughts about them. lol! Apparently, I get some sort of twinkle or sparkle in my eyes and they know something is up.

During flirty conversations, it usually goes something like this...
girl: She'll usually tilt her head to the side with a curious look, you know scrunched up eyebrows. Then that's usually followed by a knowing smile.
me: (thinking to myself) 'damn she can tell'. So I'll just smile at that point.
girl: what?! (knowing full well what's going on)
me: lmao

Its kinda funny, 'cause I don't have to say anything and they know whats up.
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you say lmao in real life? :confused:





To the thread starter: just stare at them, make eye contact and keep it. they will know youre checking them out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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or she might nave been thinking your a psycho, and wanted to make sure you didn't jump her from behind...... You keep looking at chicks like that who arn't attraced to you right from the start, you'll end up creeping them out.

one way to find out; DID SHE SMILE BACK?????
 
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spider_007 said:
or she might nave been thinking your a psycho, and wanted to make sure you didn't jump her from behind...... You keep looking at chicks like that who arn't attraced to you right from the start, you'll end up creeping them out.

one way to find out; DID SHE SMILE BACK?????
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Don't know about psycho part, and its not my business what they think about me. If a girl does not like me from the start, I am not going to bother with her. Why bother with all the extra work. Can't fight nature, well you can, but you will lose.

No smile. But I think I should of smiled first. Kinda hard though when I am pushing weights. LOL! She gave me a look of curiousity I guess.

Made a girl smile at the drive through though. One small step at a time for me here. DarkLight that is an insightful thread, makes sense to me, I think I am on the right track here. Does not make sense to hide my attraction.
 
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