"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hunger

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When I started lifting about two weeks ago, I naturally also changed my diet. I'm not yet on a very good diet, but I'm working on it. I've cut out the food that is sugar/fat dense and replaced it with protein/slow carbs. I've gone from 3-4 meals/day to 5-6. I'm probably not getting enough proteines yet, which I'm working on. I'll go buy some tuna/salmon/chicken and possibly order some whey soon (damn it's overpriced!). I eat a lot of eggs instead as of now.

What I've started noticing the last days is that even though I'm eating larger portions and more often, I get hungry all the time. Even after a large meal, I feel like I could eat a couple of sandwiches, and when I haven't eaten for 2-3 hours I'm getting really hungry.

Why is this and is it good or bad? Should I listen to the body and eat whenever I'm hungry? Am I still getting too little food?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's very good, it means your metabolism is jacked thanks to a better diet and energy expenditure (working out). Basically, you're burning calories all the time now at an increased rate - hence why you get hungry quicker. It's a very good thing.

I wouldn't advise eating other meals between meals though - snack on some fruit or veg or a few nuts, and make your regular meals larger.
 

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Alright sounds reasonable. I'm getting thirsty all the time so I'm drinking more water. I guess it correlates quite well with burning more cals.

Btw, I drink quite a lot of caffeine throughout the day (lots of tea). How is this affecting metabolism and overall workout effects? Should I try to reduce it?
 

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coffeine increase your metabolism. I don't see it as a problem as long as you drink lots of water and eat some more.
 

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The 2-3 hour thing is to give your body time to digest. If you're hungry before then, that's a good signal that you can eat more frequently.

I doubt anyone will say you should ignore your hunger and hold off from eating if you're trying to bulk.

I like Warboss Alex's approach: Eat the protein first, then the carbs.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I doubt anyone will say you should ignore your hunger and hold off from eating if you're trying to bulk.
Hunger should never be ignored, no, but food eaten between your 6-7 regular meals a day is more likely to go into adipose tissue if it's high-calorie, so stick to fruit, veg, a handful of nuts/raisins or something similar.

Once your body's adapted to eating every 2-3hours it'll get hungry a little while before a meal - if you get hungry too soon after eating a meal, then you're not eating enough in that meal.

As far as caffeine is concerned, it's our friend. If you like it, drink green tea itself - a better thermogenic than regular tea/coffee plus it's packed with anti-oxidants (which, strangely enough, you can also get from 100% cocoa powder.. </useless trivia>) - I drink two cups (500ml or so) of green tea before my every cardio session, and a cup of strong coffee before a workout is good too.

Remember that hot caffeine beverages (hot tea for example) can dehydrate us, and dehydration is a bad thing, so keep up that water intake too!
 

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Yup I drink lots of water as well. I've no problem drinking much as long as I remember to do it. Water tastes exceptionally well at times.

Btw, will a higher metabolism increase the need for anti-oxidants or is that just a general piece of advice?
 

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Thanks Warboss Alex.


Let me clarify...

Snacking ---> not so good

Shortening the time between meals because you get hungry for another meal sooner than a preset time ----> fine

You may end up eating more meals a day of course (and that's fine).
 
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