BigDon
Don Juan
The question I always come across on this board from the new guys is along the lines of "I don't know what to talk about when I'm with her!" The key is to use humor and let it play itself out.
Last night I met up with this honey for dinner and it was exactly like that - but I just am so confident about things that it never crosses my mind that I will run out of topics. But a sense of humor is very appealing to women - and once you get her laughing it is SO EASY to turn the discussion into whatver direction you like - I personally prefer sex. : ) And the way I use humor is to poke fun at who I'm with - talking about the tattoo she told me about on her ass, asking her where the back door is so I can sneak out, etc. All in good fun and it keeps everyone loose. So a few lame jokes last night and the next thing I know she is grabbing my knee and we are making out during the cab ride home.
Think about a situation where you met a woman for the first time and you could tell there was no chemistry. Maybe when you saw her from across that room you really wanted to meet her, but once you appraoched and picked up on her disinterest, then you became disinterested and wanted nothing more to do with her. SAME EXACT THING! Attitudes are contagious! If you are having fun, so will she!
Humor, above all, is a sign of confidence. Like any entertainer, you put yourself on the line - not everything you say will be found funny, but you are taking a risk...showing confidence.
So there ya have it. And if you don't think you are "funny" enough to pull this off, remember...it's a state of mind. Have the confidence and mindset to think you are witty and entertaining and she will, too.
TCB
Last night I met up with this honey for dinner and it was exactly like that - but I just am so confident about things that it never crosses my mind that I will run out of topics. But a sense of humor is very appealing to women - and once you get her laughing it is SO EASY to turn the discussion into whatver direction you like - I personally prefer sex. : ) And the way I use humor is to poke fun at who I'm with - talking about the tattoo she told me about on her ass, asking her where the back door is so I can sneak out, etc. All in good fun and it keeps everyone loose. So a few lame jokes last night and the next thing I know she is grabbing my knee and we are making out during the cab ride home.
Think about a situation where you met a woman for the first time and you could tell there was no chemistry. Maybe when you saw her from across that room you really wanted to meet her, but once you appraoched and picked up on her disinterest, then you became disinterested and wanted nothing more to do with her. SAME EXACT THING! Attitudes are contagious! If you are having fun, so will she!
Humor, above all, is a sign of confidence. Like any entertainer, you put yourself on the line - not everything you say will be found funny, but you are taking a risk...showing confidence.
So there ya have it. And if you don't think you are "funny" enough to pull this off, remember...it's a state of mind. Have the confidence and mindset to think you are witty and entertaining and she will, too.
TCB
