Humor = Confidence

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The question I always come across on this board from the new guys is along the lines of "I don't know what to talk about when I'm with her!" The key is to use humor and let it play itself out.
Last night I met up with this honey for dinner and it was exactly like that - but I just am so confident about things that it never crosses my mind that I will run out of topics. But a sense of humor is very appealing to women - and once you get her laughing it is SO EASY to turn the discussion into whatver direction you like - I personally prefer sex. : ) And the way I use humor is to poke fun at who I'm with - talking about the tattoo she told me about on her ass, asking her where the back door is so I can sneak out, etc. All in good fun and it keeps everyone loose. So a few lame jokes last night and the next thing I know she is grabbing my knee and we are making out during the cab ride home.
Think about a situation where you met a woman for the first time and you could tell there was no chemistry. Maybe when you saw her from across that room you really wanted to meet her, but once you appraoched and picked up on her disinterest, then you became disinterested and wanted nothing more to do with her. SAME EXACT THING! Attitudes are contagious! If you are having fun, so will she!
Humor, above all, is a sign of confidence. Like any entertainer, you put yourself on the line - not everything you say will be found funny, but you are taking a risk...showing confidence.
So there ya have it. And if you don't think you are "funny" enough to pull this off, remember...it's a state of mind. Have the confidence and mindset to think you are witty and entertaining and she will, too.

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Thankz bro!

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Originally posted by BigDon:

The question I always come across on this board from the new guys is along the lines of "I don't know what to talk about when I'm with her!" The key is to use humor and let it play itself out.
Last night I met up with this honey for dinner and it was exactly like that - but I just am so confident about things that it never crosses my mind that I will run out of topics. But a sense of humor is very appealing to women - and once you get her laughing it is SO EASY to turn the discussion into whatver direction you like - I personally prefer sex. : ) And the way I use humor is to poke fun at who I'm with - talking about the tattoo she told me about on her ass, asking her where the back door is so I can sneak out, etc. All in good fun and it keeps everyone loose. So a few lame jokes last night and the next thing I know she is grabbing my knee and we are making out during the cab ride home.
Think about a situation where you met a woman for the first time and you could tell there was no chemistry. Maybe when you saw her from across that room you really wanted to meet her, but once you appraoched and picked up on her disinterest, then you became disinterested and wanted nothing more to do with her. SAME EXACT THING! Attitudes are contagious! If you are having fun, so will she!
Humor, above all, is a sign of confidence. Like any entertainer, you put yourself on the line - not everything you say will be found funny, but you are taking a risk...showing confidence.
So there ya have it. And if you don't think you are "funny" enough to pull this off, remember...it's a state of mind. Have the confidence and mindset to think you are witty and entertaining and she will, too.

TCB
 
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Good post.

The authors of "How to Succeed with Women" mention just how scared women are that any guy is a potential psycho. A sense of humor helps to alleviate those fears.

Humor means you are comfortable, and if you are at ease with yourself, then she wil feel similarly.
 

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The thing that makes me mad is when someone says that "they've found the ultimate key on attracting women" and says it's humor. Only a few people are funny all of the time and make up funny things whenever they want to. So we got the secret, you have to be funny! well that's so easy isn't it????
I've got another secret to you all, be Brad Pitt! simple! all you have to do is Brad Pit and you'll have women all over you! go and try it out.. you'll thank me later.
 

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Boy83: (Yes I know this was posted 3 months ago, but I'm answering anyway). Being funny is a helluva lot easier than being Brad Pitt (name change forms are such a pain, y'know?) There are a few good posts on this, check out mine in the DJ bible (I'm so proud.)


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Originally posted by Ryan
see! this ^^^^^guy^^^^^^ is a true "Master Don Juan".....I learnt SO much from him.

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Too bad he ain't here no more
 
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I don't find this humor thing very funny, funny man.
 
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