"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This girl I met a week or so ago keeps huging me for along time and sat on my lap and calls me alot, and I call her back.. I would take it as she likes me but I have seen her hug other guys quickly. Whats with her is she just friendly or what. My female friend said to ask her indirectly if she likes me.. My dumbass friend called her and told her i do and he wants to talk to her about it but she wont be back to check her answering machine fora few days becuase it wasnt on her cell but yeah..

what do I do argh.. I mighta posted this a few days ago I dont even remember I couldnt find that i did.. thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always shy away from trying to get with these girls; since its hard for me at least to gauge their actions.

If anything, since you have her number, ask her how she would feel if just you and her did something over the weekend, and play it by ear once you go out.
 

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Consider this. Would you be okay with her continually hugging these guys if you two were dating? Even if you were, she'd be getting her way too much and she'd feel like she could do whatever she wanted. Not the type of girl you want.

Also, I think your friend is trying to get with her and trying to ruin your chances by exposing you then following up by playing middle man and having close talks with her. It's been done.

Just let it go where it goes, potentially, I don't think it's worth it at all. And since your friend has exposed you, you've lost all mystery and challenge. You need to have talks with your friends and keep them in check, they need to understand the game before you even talk to them about this kinda stuff. That was just plain impolite and rude and if that happened in my group, we'd be wailing on him. Just a thought.
 

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Originally posted by wh01987
This girl I met a week or so ago keeps huging me for along time and sat on my lap and calls me alot, and I call her back.. I would take it as she likes me but I have seen her hug other guys quickly. Whats with her is she just friendly or what. My female friend said to ask her indirectly if she likes me.. My dumbass friend called her and told her i do and he wants to talk to her about it but she wont be back to check her answering machine fora few days becuase it wasnt on her cell but yeah..

what do I do argh.. I mighta posted this a few days ago I dont even remember I couldnt find that i did.. thanks
shes friendly stop being retarded
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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