huge problem. need help

[OGriley]

i understand that this site is for dating stuff. but theres this girl that wants to have sex. ive hung out with her quite a few times and im cool with it but the thing is.. im a virgin so i wouldnt know where to begin with foreplay and such... help plz

 

[War Against Betaism]

My first time I actually just copied from what I saw in pornos. Most people's fears when they first do it is that the girl will make fun of them for being inexperienced, if she wanted to go as far as having sex with you she is not going to just flat out reject you because you have no experience, if girls just wanted to go after guys that knew what they were doing they would go for the college frat guys or sexy rich husband every single time. I forget which online stream site it was but on those porn parallel sites like youtube there are actually instructional videos such as how to finger a girl with a real life demonstration, eat them out and what to look for, etc.

 

[shaunuk]

Things should escalate, like you go from touching the tits, down the body, squeezing tits a bit harder, teasing around the thighs, rubbing her ***** thru her jeans, taking the clothes off...Fingering...

It gets more heated as you go along, and since she's up for it as well, she'll start escalating as well probably like rubbing your d1ck through your jeans etc...and then you'll just do things more instinctively cause you're both getting horny and wanna ****.

Basically foreplay is just the stuff leading up to sex, usually starting with kissing, and it just escalates as arousal increases until you're having sex.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Actually I don't know why I didn't cite this site in the first place, this is the DiCarlo Kino Escalation ladder:

http://www.directnaturalgame.com/Techniques/kino-escalation-ladder.html

You should just skip to point 8.