"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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huge problem. need help

OGriley

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i understand that this site is for dating stuff. but theres this girl that wants to have sex. ive hung out with her quite a few times and im cool with it but the thing is.. im a virgin so i wouldnt know where to begin with foreplay and such... help plz
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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War Against Betaism

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My first time I actually just copied from what I saw in pornos. Most people's fears when they first do it is that the girl will make fun of them for being inexperienced, if she wanted to go as far as having sex with you she is not going to just flat out reject you because you have no experience, if girls just wanted to go after guys that knew what they were doing they would go for the college frat guys or sexy rich husband every single time. I forget which online stream site it was but on those porn parallel sites like youtube there are actually instructional videos such as how to finger a girl with a real life demonstration, eat them out and what to look for, etc.
 

shaunuk

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Things should escalate, like you go from touching the tits, down the body, squeezing tits a bit harder, teasing around the thighs, rubbing her ***** thru her jeans, taking the clothes off...Fingering...

It gets more heated as you go along, and since she's up for it as well, she'll start escalating as well probably like rubbing your d1ck through your jeans etc...and then you'll just do things more instinctively cause you're both getting horny and wanna ****.

Basically foreplay is just the stuff leading up to sex, usually starting with kissing, and it just escalates as arousal increases until you're having sex.
 
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