"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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drkpassenger

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Hello guys, I'm trying to do this whole online dating thing, so far I haven't really had any success. Typical story right? but I've been trying to integrate characteristics that women might find attractive. I know that the internet is no supplement for actually interfacing with someone face to face but I am using it because its convenient because I'm going to be active duty military for the next 9-10 months and I won't really have the opportunity to go clubbing. Plus, it can help to develop my conversational skills. I know its alot to ask, but can you read over my OKCupid profile and give me some advice? Too much? Too little? General impressions? I respect the collective wisdom of the forum and would greatly appreciate it.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/whats_up21

Feel free to be as critical as you need to be. I have a pretty thick skin :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drewskie

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Needs work my friend. Search this site for online profile posts, there's a few really good ones. Fisrt off, you need to smile in your pics.....much too serious. Also, find some older, or take new ones, pics of you with girls or groups of people doing something exciting. In the about me sections.....don't do what every single other due does, and talk about your qualities......tell a joke, post some link to a stupid website, something like that.......the key iss difference, If you were a girl searching online for a guy.....what woul dmake his profile stand out............that's what you need to think about.
 
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Duffdog

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Pretty much the only thing chics care about in online profiles is your facial picture. Make sure you have a good one--then your set.

From what I have found, those dating sites are garbage. I have much better luck posting an ad on craigslist with my picture and getting girls to contact me than doing the online dating thing.
 
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Daddy The Pimp

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Change your pictures . Put some where you're smiling and some with your friends. [edit:just noticed now that drewskie gave the same advice]

No need to write all that bullsh1t on how you try to make life of other people better etc.

CUT the crap , get to the point where you display your sex worthy part.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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