"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
hug or kiss on the cheek for greeting on first date???
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
In the same manner, do what works for you.
Personally, I walk up, make eye contact, smile, say hi give a one arm hug around the waste (without turning to the side for that faggy one arm fake ass nigga hug) and kiss the cheek. Like out the side of my mouth kiss the cheek. Keep it casual. Kino it up.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
A man with enough confidence can make a girl blush when he kisses her hand on the greet. I've seen this sh*t b4!
powpow
Senior Don Juan
I dont really think too much about this crap. I just do it.
I think neggy is right. Just do what makes you feel comfortable. Unless you are working hard on inner game and are using this girl as practice to expand your game repertoire.
In self analyzing, I think maybe I do it to show that her space is my space and to show her that I am a boss. And that I am able to work outside of societal norms. But when I do it, I do it because I feel like it. You get what Im saying? Just do whatever it feels natural.
A girl puts more priority in that you feel natural and comfortable rather than the actual manifestation of your actions.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
A kiss on the cheek seems to brazen for me, yes I am a wuss
What's most confusing for me is what to do at the end of the date. I guess it depends on the logistics of the date itself.
Mike32ct
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It's not a big deal. It doesn't count as a first kiss because it's just a greeting.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
VastanVer2.0
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