"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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https?

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Hi,

I was just about to purchase three items I really wanted online, but noticed the URL was http, not https.

https is secure right, that's what I was told.

Anybody know much about this as I would really like to purchase the items, but why has the site not got https.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just don't transfer your credit card number or any important passwords there. What site is it?
Maybe you can pay by invoice, or through Paypal (they will redirect you to their site, which is secure).
 

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Ultimatewarrior.com
 

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Why is it a bad thing to give out your home address or mobile number online?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it all depends on who the virtual terminal is


all https means is that the transcation is going to take place on THEIR website. in other words, they have a virtual terminal that they intergrate into their site, the v irtual termainal talks to the bqnk and spits back a yes or no all from that website. in this instane, yes you need https


but quite a few sites use paypal and unless you have paypal pro, which most people don
t, when you go to paypal you are taken to paypal to complete the transcation and in that caae, since there is no actual cc information being transffered on the orignial site, the https is really a waste of money
 
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