hs relationship + eating lunch with her

[DJ_Cloud]

I'm in a highschool relationship right now, should I make myself available to eat with her every lunchtime? Doesn't this sort of give us an overexposure situation

 

[dbot]

yeah it does. I would only take her to lunch maybe once a week or so. Remember you have a life outside of your girlfriend

 

[DJ_Cloud]

That's what I was thinking, but I'm wondering if she would -expect- me to eat with her since we are in the same school after all.

 

[icallug]

the girl that im real good friends with (we arent going out) we hardly talk to each other at school, sure it feels wierd cuz we are real close outside of school but once we are in there its like we hardly know each other. so dont see her all the time during lunch, you got other friends but its nice to talk to her once in a while

 

[dbot]

she shouldn't expect anything of you. You aren't obligated to eat with her every day of the week. You need to make clear that your life doesn't revolve around her.

 

[misunderstood??]

The key to a good relationship in high school is giving each other freedom. Go out for lunch with her once or twice a week and go the rest of the time with your friends and let her do the same. Her friends will probably like you more if you don't try to hog her at school like all her previous AFC boyfriends probably tried to do.

 

[THA REALNESS]

I always eat and sit with the girl i'm banging , even if she isn't exclusive to me ....Maybe it's dominance or something ...to me it just expected that i would sit with her ride home with her ,etc.



....to me it's like opening doors and paying the bill,you don't have to ,but deep down you know your supposed to.





P.S. I always make them go up and buy the food for us
though. At the end of the day i am PIMP.