"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HPV now causes more cancer in men than women

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7 Million American Men Carry Cancer-Causing HPV Virus
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/16/...rican-men-carry-cancer-causing-hpv-virus.html

The incidence of mouth and throat cancers caused by the human papilloma virus in men has now surpassed the incidence of HPV-related cervical cancers in women, researchers report.

The study, in the Annals of Internal Medicine, found that 11 million men and 3.2 million women in the United States had oral HPV infections. Among them, 7 million men and 1.4 million women had strains that can cause cancers of the throat, tongue and other areas of the head and neck.

The risk of infection was higher for smokers, for people who have had multiple sex partners, and for men who have sex with men. Frequent oral sex also increased the risk. The rate was higher among men who also had genital HPV. (Almost half of men aged 18 to 60 have a genital HPV infection, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.)

Neither age nor income made a difference in high-risk oral infection rates, but rates among non-Hispanic blacks were higher than other races and ethnicities.

HPV vaccination is recommended starting at age 11 or 12 and is effective, said the senior author, Ashish A. Deshmukh, an assistant professor at the University of Florida, and “it’s crucial that parents vaccinate boys as well as girls.”

The lead author, Kalyani Sonawane, also at the University of Florida, said that behavioral change is important, too, particularly smoking cessation. “The difference in oral HPV infection between smokers and nonsmokers is staggering,” she said.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Perhaps more guys are now getting tested for cancer than before.
 

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Yes. Boys and girls. My girls got the guardasil. I didn't know boys were getting vaccines until after they left home.
 
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I asked for a test and they said they didn't even do it on males.

I know I have HSV-1 and that's it. I don't even consider that to be a big deal, as I think over 50% of the population has it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im kinda ignorant about it, how do you test if you have hpv and how do you fix it?

Do you need medication or our immune system get rid of it by time?
 

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They test for the antibodies to HPV, signs that your immune system is fighting it. Then they tell you that you have a dread disease for life...which will, in all likelihood, show no symptoms, nor will you infect anyone else, at least with warts. There's no cure, or even treatment once you have it. The HPV vaccine for young people is all healthcare has to offer.
 

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The goal of the vaccine for both young men and women is to prevent the spread of the disease because it causes cancer in both sexes.
 

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The meaningful point of the story here is to be very careful what you Eat…
So don’t even think about putting your mouth and/or tongue on a ONL…
 
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Any stats about the % of chances you have to get it if you screw an infected woman?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Any stats about the % of chances you have to get it if you screw an infected woman?
Whatever that transmission % is, I have no idea, but condoms only reduce it by 50%, whether it's HPV or HSV. That's a dirty little secret that the health authorities try to keep quiet, because they fear that it will erode trust in comdoms and fewer people will use them.
 
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