"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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pyros

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I was wondering, many of you guys say that for a first date, you just go with the girl to a bar near your place and then suggest to go there for another drink or whatever but,

how do you do it? I mean, its the first date, you're in a bar having a drink etc... I have several questions: when do you kiss her? before going to your place? in the bar? in the street?

I mean, I try to imagine the situation. You're in the bar, having a good time but you haven't even kissed yet so you're thinking about when and how....and ...next thing you know you take her to your place?


Could someone explain this process to me? thanks.


THanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are no rules and thats the fun of it. Just enjoy yourself, let it flow.. And if it feels right go for it. If a girl wants sex on a first date, or any date for that matter, then you will know it. Listen to her, look at body language, etc.
 
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1. Give her a high five, but hang your hand a few seconds longer and slow separate your fingers. If she hangs on or interlocks her fingers, that's an absolute sign of high interest.

2. Change the venue into a more secluded place. Perhaps a park or restricted beach area. Have a couple of pocket shots in your car. This is when you ask the logistics.

Where does she live?
Who does she live with?
What time is her curfew?
Does she have work tomorrow?

3. Go in for the kiss.

4. Get a feel if either her place or your place works better. If her place is better, open a conversation about different places around her that is of interest. Give an enthusiastic response and bait her into wanting to take you there. If it is your place that makes the most sense logistically just tell her why she should go to a venue near your place.

5. Find that opportunity in the conversation in the next venue that will either bring both of you back to your place or hers. At this point, she has already decided to fvck you or not. The reason is just a medium to sex. I have used the 'professional poker' to give her tips, which resulted in strip poker in her apartment. In Rollo's words, if a girl wants to fvck you, she will find a way to fvck you.
 

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stop thinking to much for one. over analysis will kill you with women. if you want fast kiss closes, which won't always develop into a one night stand you could bust on her and kind of go for a butterfly kiss then a peck her on the forehead or lips. if you go for the lips its easier to transition into a full on make out. use common sense and your head and it won't be so hard for you.:yes:
 
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