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pyros

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I was wondering, many of you guys say that for a first date, you just go with the girl to a bar near your place and then suggest to go there for another drink or whatever but,

how do you do it? I mean, its the first date, you're in a bar having a drink etc... I have several questions: when do you kiss her? before going to your place? in the bar? in the street?

I mean, I try to imagine the situation. You're in the bar, having a good time but you haven't even kissed yet so you're thinking about when and how....and ...next thing you know you take her to your place?


Could someone explain this process to me? thanks.


THanks.
 

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There are no rules and thats the fun of it. Just enjoy yourself, let it flow.. And if it feels right go for it. If a girl wants sex on a first date, or any date for that matter, then you will know it. Listen to her, look at body language, etc.
 
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1. Give her a high five, but hang your hand a few seconds longer and slow separate your fingers. If she hangs on or interlocks her fingers, that's an absolute sign of high interest.

2. Change the venue into a more secluded place. Perhaps a park or restricted beach area. Have a couple of pocket shots in your car. This is when you ask the logistics.

Where does she live?
Who does she live with?
What time is her curfew?
Does she have work tomorrow?

3. Go in for the kiss.

4. Get a feel if either her place or your place works better. If her place is better, open a conversation about different places around her that is of interest. Give an enthusiastic response and bait her into wanting to take you there. If it is your place that makes the most sense logistically just tell her why she should go to a venue near your place.

5. Find that opportunity in the conversation in the next venue that will either bring both of you back to your place or hers. At this point, she has already decided to fvck you or not. The reason is just a medium to sex. I have used the 'professional poker' to give her tips, which resulted in strip poker in her apartment. In Rollo's words, if a girl wants to fvck you, she will find a way to fvck you.
 

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stop thinking to much for one. over analysis will kill you with women. if you want fast kiss closes, which won't always develop into a one night stand you could bust on her and kind of go for a butterfly kiss then a peck her on the forehead or lips. if you go for the lips its easier to transition into a full on make out. use common sense and your head and it won't be so hard for you.:yes:
 
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