"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How's this for DJing? Need some advice

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A couple of days ago a random chick added me on facebook and sent me a message. I decided I might as well practice my DJ skills and message her back. So far here is our series of messages:

Her: im just luking at mah facebok & i saw urs...
Me: pretty random but ill let it slide :p
her: nice smile by da way....
Me: thank u..........and if it didnt say u had a bf i'd be hitting on u 2
her: really huh?..hu care's about bf....lol
Me: good answer, if it doesn't bother u it doesn't bother me. I guess I can give u my compliment now............you are a very beautiful girl........in fact u might even be in my league :p
Her: yah ok...i cant take my eyes luking at u...
Me: well then maybe one day u'll have to c me in person ; )
Her: ok..wat im gonna do if i see u...

Can anyone gimme a good line to tell her next?......thing is I dont really know what shes asking. Also if this helps I am not really looking for a gf so I'd like to try to tell her that if anything happens it will pretty much be f-buddies.

Btw..........can u guys also provide feedback on my the quality of my responses so far
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I really don't reccommend online gaming but..
you've given her too much attention, like mentioning her bf (never do this), then you complimented her right after she presented herself as an attention wh0re saying "who cares about bfs" which was also not smart.

She doesn't sound interested, but I could be wrong soo you want something like..
"You better think of something good."

Play around with it... don't say something specific, try to get some ideas out of her. I really reccommend not doing this online though lol.
 
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Believe me im not into doing it online at all either.......but its just that she added me and initiated the convo so I figured i might as well toy with it
 
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Wtf is this advice. God sake.

Just get her number and go on a date.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I agree with smooth guy. Anytime I meet a chick online, my first quest is to get her on the phone. After that, I go through my normal routine of setting up a date. Conversation should be about 3 minutes max.
 
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Why does she type like she's autistic?
 
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