"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How's this for DJing? Need some advice

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originaldj

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A couple of days ago a random chick added me on facebook and sent me a message. I decided I might as well practice my DJ skills and message her back. So far here is our series of messages:

Her: im just luking at mah facebok & i saw urs...
Me: pretty random but ill let it slide :p
her: nice smile by da way....
Me: thank u..........and if it didnt say u had a bf i'd be hitting on u 2
her: really huh?..hu care's about bf....lol
Me: good answer, if it doesn't bother u it doesn't bother me. I guess I can give u my compliment now............you are a very beautiful girl........in fact u might even be in my league :p
Her: yah ok...i cant take my eyes luking at u...
Me: well then maybe one day u'll have to c me in person ; )
Her: ok..wat im gonna do if i see u...

Can anyone gimme a good line to tell her next?......thing is I dont really know what shes asking. Also if this helps I am not really looking for a gf so I'd like to try to tell her that if anything happens it will pretty much be f-buddies.

Btw..........can u guys also provide feedback on my the quality of my responses so far
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I really don't reccommend online gaming but..
you've given her too much attention, like mentioning her bf (never do this), then you complimented her right after she presented herself as an attention wh0re saying "who cares about bfs" which was also not smart.

She doesn't sound interested, but I could be wrong soo you want something like..
"You better think of something good."

Play around with it... don't say something specific, try to get some ideas out of her. I really reccommend not doing this online though lol.
 
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Believe me im not into doing it online at all either.......but its just that she added me and initiated the convo so I figured i might as well toy with it
 
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smooth guy

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Wtf is this advice. God sake.

Just get her number and go on a date.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I agree with smooth guy. Anytime I meet a chick online, my first quest is to get her on the phone. After that, I go through my normal routine of setting up a date. Conversation should be about 3 minutes max.
 
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Why does she type like she's autistic?
 
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