"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How's this for DJing? Need some advice

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A couple of days ago a random chick added me on facebook and sent me a message. I decided I might as well practice my DJ skills and message her back. So far here is our series of messages:

Her: im just luking at mah facebok & i saw urs...
Me: pretty random but ill let it slide :p
her: nice smile by da way....
Me: thank u..........and if it didnt say u had a bf i'd be hitting on u 2
her: really huh?..hu care's about bf....lol
Me: good answer, if it doesn't bother u it doesn't bother me. I guess I can give u my compliment now............you are a very beautiful girl........in fact u might even be in my league :p
Her: yah ok...i cant take my eyes luking at u...
Me: well then maybe one day u'll have to c me in person ; )
Her: ok..wat im gonna do if i see u...

Can anyone gimme a good line to tell her next?......thing is I dont really know what shes asking. Also if this helps I am not really looking for a gf so I'd like to try to tell her that if anything happens it will pretty much be f-buddies.

Btw..........can u guys also provide feedback on my the quality of my responses so far
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I really don't reccommend online gaming but..
you've given her too much attention, like mentioning her bf (never do this), then you complimented her right after she presented herself as an attention wh0re saying "who cares about bfs" which was also not smart.

She doesn't sound interested, but I could be wrong soo you want something like..
"You better think of something good."

Play around with it... don't say something specific, try to get some ideas out of her. I really reccommend not doing this online though lol.
 
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Believe me im not into doing it online at all either.......but its just that she added me and initiated the convo so I figured i might as well toy with it
 
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Wtf is this advice. God sake.

Just get her number and go on a date.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree with smooth guy. Anytime I meet a chick online, my first quest is to get her on the phone. After that, I go through my normal routine of setting up a date. Conversation should be about 3 minutes max.
 
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Why does she type like she's autistic?
 
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