"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hows this for a workout?

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over the christmas break i gained like 20 pounds of booze fat. my face is rounder and my belly is unsexy even though my woman says differently. anyways here's what i have been doing for the first week.

cardio- stairmaster hardcore for a half hour in the morning.
cardio- stairmaster hardercore for a half hour at night.
results for 7 straight days.....0 pounds lost. totally unawesome.

i was thinking of uping my cardio to 1 hour on the stairmaster in the morning and 1 hour in the evening. i hope that works.

so how does my new schedule look. i weigh 190 again dammit. and i'm 5'11.
i am the rollercoaster when it comes to losing and gaining weight.

through my younger years in my early 20's cardio has blasted me back into shape. now that i'm 29 it's becoming more harder to lose weight even though i'm killing myself at the gym. is cardio losing it's effect

also i go to the gym everyday because i like the chemical rush it gives you and it puts me in great mood....till i step on the scales of doom . i heard going to the gym everyday is counter productive though. is that wrong
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you are what you eat. what is your diet like
This is the main factor
yes only need to go to the gym about 3 times a wk
 

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What you eat is the key to losing weight,what's you diet like?
 

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i eat alot of steaks, chicken, rice, fruits all the good stuff. and i only eat when my stomach is hungry. plus i drink tons of coffee with just cream. also i drink about 4 liters of water a day. anybody have any workout plans or guides i just downloaded this and i have no clue what he's saying? Tom Venuto - Burn the Fat, Feed the Muscle
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i think my body produces instant creatine because i have no trouble turning myself into the hulk but the look i'm trying to achieve is my old style. the surfer boy body. skinny i guess. i just like the fact that when your skinny you can eat rotten for a bit without paying the price. i got muscley before and it was to much maintenance to stay ripped and big. if you stop working out it just turns to fat.
 

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you have problems with food. Stop eating for taste and eat for the nutritional value. change coffee with green tea. Don't eat anything white.

research
 

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insanity said:
i got muscley before and it was to much maintenance to stay ripped and big. if you stop working out it just turns to fat.
not if you train for strength instead of size. big 3 compound lifts (squats, deads, some form of bench) for 2x5 after proper warmups. i rarely lose any strength, even with several weeks off. you're going to have to accept that by your late 20s, working out needs to be part of your lifestyle. you've already said you get a gym high -- why not grab that high several times a week?
 

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but eating as if you have lots of muscle and doing nothing to preserve/build muscle can lead to the illusion, which is probably (i hope) what he meant.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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