"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How's this for a kiss close?

Lexington

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I have something going on with this one girl and I must say that the lessons I've learned from this site have really helped a great deal. I'm pretty sure there's strong interest so now I've got to close the deal.

For me this is the hardest part. I'm very shy with women. EXTREMELY shy. I've been working on fixing this, but I've still got some way to go in this department. So of course going for a kiss is a nerve wracking thought. But I'm going to man up and do it.

I've read about waiting for the right moment etc. but given how shy I am, I'm not sure I'll be able to just do it spontaneously right now. Just thinking about it makes my heart start to race.

So how does this sound:

When we're on a high note on the date, I'm going to pause for a moment and look her right in the eye. Then say, "you know what? I wanna do something,"

When she says, "what?" I'm going in.

Of course, I'll make it seem like it's no big deal and assume she's receptive etc.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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slickaz

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that could work..very well even..but mainly if she is really into you..then nodoubt...lol..good luck let us know..

last time i did kiss close was 4 days agow ith this new chic im seein.

we were walkin on d beach eatin ice cream

she got pistachio and i got macadamia flavours

and i said..

theres a very important life or death question bothering my mind..

she stopped in her tracks n said whats that??

so i walked up close to her and whispered;

pistachio + macadamia + your lips; would they taste as good as they look individually..and then together?

she laughed and said you should try it out and tell me..

so i did..obviously her lips tasted amazing!

good luck
tonight is my second date with her... :) fclose hopeful
 

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When you wake up in the morning you don't think about looking at the clock to see what time it is you just do it.

When you decide on what to wear, you don't about think about what arm goes in the shirt first.

When you decide to walk, you don't think about which leg to lead off with.

Do you ever think about breathing? No, unless you can't.

What I'm getting at is, don't think about just do it as Mark Victor Hansen says
“Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.”

Good Luck mi amigo.
 

Furyguy

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You have to realize that once you man up and do it, you'll feel great regardless of what happens. Win or lose, it'll still make you feel amazing.

I hope to hear back from you as to what happened.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The August Sky

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i like the move off the movie with Russel Crowe called 3:10 to yuma. when he goes into the bar and meets the waitress...acts like he doesn't know her then kisses her...i really liked that move


he approached her when she wasn't looking..

got up behind her and played with her hair for a half a second

put his hands on her hips and said "you know your looking kind of skinny...but that's alright i don't mind skinny girls as long as they have (blank) eyes."

as he said as long as...he spins her around and looks in her eyes


good stuff
 
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