"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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buckwheat18

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Hey all, how are you? Um, I got a few things I wanna discuss, ask and I need some advice or tips if you can offer. Every other day I got a study hall with this HB 7, she is kinda like a skater dame I guess. She sits at a table with me and a bunch of other kids i kinda know. I don't usually start conversations up with her, sometimes she will use kino on me and I offer it back. She only offers little conversation when I talk to the other guys. She is shy aswell so I guess that explains it. Well one day I firgure I would try the cold approach so, I didn't end up sitting at the tabel with her instead I sat at another tabel with my other fellow DJ (heh witch i'm teaching.) Anyways turns out it works very effective the next day I have class with her and she's like: How come you left me at the tabel all by myself with so and so? (she had a smile on her face) I reply: I had to talk to one of my friends about sumthing. She said nothing and went about her business. So my question is basically should I move to that one tabel with my fellow DJ and leave her in mystery? I kinda think maybe she will chase after me? advice, tips, comments would be all very cool thanx for reading,
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJoneday

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I have a better idea. How about you just chat with her in class, and ask for her number? All this table stuff isn't going to get you far. Just get the digits - Ask her out. Also read the bible if you havn't, it gets into this much deeper.
 

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I agree with the above post, playing games will only get you so far. It seems like this girl could be attracted, so you might as well make your move.
 

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Good, you're doin' the chick thang...but try to expand Djing into all aspects of your life. I learn something new about Djing almost every week, and this week I've learned that most of the best rewards come from the other aspects. Despite possible first impressions, this isn't some cheap wannabe-pimp speed seduction site, its a way of life and philosophy. Hard work and discipline are the roads to success and happiness, and at that point chicks are secondary and more plentiful. Read some of Pook's be a man stuff and Sammo's self-improvement stuff and you'll see what I mean.
 

InsidiousNstinct

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she will use kino on me and I offer it back.
Right there's a sign that should be telling you to turn it up a dial..
Your just responding to what SHES doing... Next time you see her kino her first...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why are you trying to create more mystery when she is already interested in you??? Do you like all the drama? Now that the attraction is there, you must let her know that you are interested in her and pop the question!!! The ball is in your court - do something while she is still interested, or b 4 somebody else takes her!
 
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