"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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buckwheat18

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Hey all, how are you? Um, I got a few things I wanna discuss, ask and I need some advice or tips if you can offer. Every other day I got a study hall with this HB 7, she is kinda like a skater dame I guess. She sits at a table with me and a bunch of other kids i kinda know. I don't usually start conversations up with her, sometimes she will use kino on me and I offer it back. She only offers little conversation when I talk to the other guys. She is shy aswell so I guess that explains it. Well one day I firgure I would try the cold approach so, I didn't end up sitting at the tabel with her instead I sat at another tabel with my other fellow DJ (heh witch i'm teaching.) Anyways turns out it works very effective the next day I have class with her and she's like: How come you left me at the tabel all by myself with so and so? (she had a smile on her face) I reply: I had to talk to one of my friends about sumthing. She said nothing and went about her business. So my question is basically should I move to that one tabel with my fellow DJ and leave her in mystery? I kinda think maybe she will chase after me? advice, tips, comments would be all very cool thanx for reading,
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJoneday

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I have a better idea. How about you just chat with her in class, and ask for her number? All this table stuff isn't going to get you far. Just get the digits - Ask her out. Also read the bible if you havn't, it gets into this much deeper.
 

blienk

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I agree with the above post, playing games will only get you so far. It seems like this girl could be attracted, so you might as well make your move.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Good, you're doin' the chick thang...but try to expand Djing into all aspects of your life. I learn something new about Djing almost every week, and this week I've learned that most of the best rewards come from the other aspects. Despite possible first impressions, this isn't some cheap wannabe-pimp speed seduction site, its a way of life and philosophy. Hard work and discipline are the roads to success and happiness, and at that point chicks are secondary and more plentiful. Read some of Pook's be a man stuff and Sammo's self-improvement stuff and you'll see what I mean.
 

InsidiousNstinct

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she will use kino on me and I offer it back.
Right there's a sign that should be telling you to turn it up a dial..
Your just responding to what SHES doing... Next time you see her kino her first...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why are you trying to create more mystery when she is already interested in you??? Do you like all the drama? Now that the attraction is there, you must let her know that you are interested in her and pop the question!!! The ball is in your court - do something while she is still interested, or b 4 somebody else takes her!
 
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