"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How's my myspace profile..

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I'm not sure if this is Offtopic, but I'm stuck at my grandma's house 250 miles away from my house. She lives in Middle-of-knowwhere, Texas. And I'm BORED! I think my profile makes me seem too unfriendly?

My names kirk, I could be like 95% of the sissy ass dudes and tell you how im "laidback" and "fun to talk to "... the difference between me and them is that i have a sack and im gonna tell it like it is.. at the age of 4 i stopped giving a **** what people thought of me and what i do... my passion in life is music and guitar, football is pretty cool too. some of my friends call me "budda" or if your one of my homeboys from DC then you know me as "stacks". im the most competetive person you will ever meet.... seriously, when i visit my grandma at the old folks home i race those old farts in wheelchairs. ATTENTION!!: I have a cronic illness called M.A.L.E., it fills my body with testosterone, which makes me unpredictable, wild, crazy, spontanious, fearless, funny, and makes me think i can do **** i cant.... lets not forget the skateboard and hula-hoop on fire" video you see at the circus or wherever, it doesnt work out all too well in daniels backyard.........
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how many hits have u gotten so far?
 
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then its obviously working. The only thing that sounds remotely mean is the thing about 'old farts' other than that it just sound c+f
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the difference between me and them is that i have a sack and im gonna tell it like it is..

Generally, the profile is pretty good, but I think you're trying a little bit to hard.

at the age of 4 i stopped giving a **** what people thought of me and what i do...

Yeah, trying way to hard.

Try more of a 'leaned back' approach, come across indifferent, almost bored. The 'I'm a bad ass so watch out' approach won't give you the effect your looking for, at least not the way you're doing it.
 
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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
the difference between me and them is that i have a sack and im gonna tell it like it is..

Generally, the profile is pretty good, but I think you're trying a little bit to hard.

at the age of 4 i stopped giving a **** what people thought of me and what i do...

Yeah, trying way to hard.

Try more of a 'leaned back' approach, come across indifferent, almost bored. The 'I'm a bad ass so watch out' approach won't give you the effect your looking for, at least not the way you're doing it.
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true. DUDE give me a link. i'll add u and that'll make u a million times more popular with the ladies!
 
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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
true. DUDE give me a link. i'll add u and that'll make u a million times more popular with the ladies!
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:D true that ^ this guy is the master. lol. But about your myspace maybe you did come off a little too strong. lol. But you know just change it around a little and go on with your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mhm. and DONT seem to into it. even though i have a picture background i like only have a couple pics and none of that "what vodka flavor are you" shiot. u've got more important things to do.
 
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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
mhm. and DONT seem to into it. even though i have a picture background i like only have a couple pics and none of that "what vodka flavor are you" shiot. u've got more important things to do.
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That's a shame bro. You can get allot of practice sharpening your skills on myspace. I would reconsider...
 
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We have a thread for this in AE. But you really should spent more time worrying about how to pick up chicks instead of some retarded myspace profile.
 
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