"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I approach saying hey whats up? What's your name? Is this a good approach?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm not guru or anything, and there's nothing wrong with that approach other than the fact that it's the same god damn approach that every other dude uses. Openers don't have to be fancy but they should be different and engage the girl in conversation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you are extremly good looking, then this aproach will work fine, simply because you would have to say something complety stupid for it not to work fi you look real good.

If you look average, even above average, if the girl is not desprate then it may not work well. If she gives you the time of day then maybe oyu can make up for it latter, but the problem is when you start like this, you show that you are talking to the girl for the sake of talking to her. You want to show that there is some other reason, for example you want an oppinion on somthing or to aks a question, and you just happen to be chatty so you cary on talking.
 
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