"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Howd you find out about sosuave.com?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
www.becomeaplyer.com
www.alovelinks.com with dating dynamics by Carlos Xuma and dating wizard by Michael W, very profound teachings.
www.hearthlessbithes.com
If you guys know other websites, share with us.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
isotope
Senior Don Juan
Lordlaxative
Don Juan
www.askmen.com - good dating advice articles as well as quote of the day and an interesting fact of the day.
www.datingclass.com
and as for how I found this site... I think I found a link to the DJ Bible and became very curious.
Hollowpoint
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j/k
LOL. Can you post the thread?Originally posted by 1878
bodybuilding forum had a post in the sex section that was like a billion pages long, all about chicks and guys problems and it had this link in
Someone posted two seduction type links like 6 months ago in the General discussion forum on a bodybuilding forum...
www.wannabebig.com
I don't post under the same name.....though message me with your MSN messenger contact and I'll be glad to chat.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Looking for how to get a girlfriend(oneitis) and found this site and have not looked back.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thx Buddha, God, Sosuave and most of all Google
neobrood
Senior Don Juan
I found this site when I was desperately searching for tips and advice on how to make her change her mind to like me.
some threads that talk about "her"
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52891
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52917
I searched google and stumbled upon sites like datingclass.com, seductionmethod.com, and then subscribed to their newsletters, and then read each and every article posted on that site.
For a month, I applied what I learned... um... ****y and funny, not to shower her with compliments... occassional teasing, touch her, more eye contact, smile, etc...
But pffft... too late the hero. I've known her since SEPTEMBER, and been acting like a complete AFC wuss to her until APRIL... For 1 whole friggin year in school, I was using all the AFC techniques on her...
showering her with compliments, following her like a dog, always nodding my head to her, making her lead me, etc... etc... etc...Its understandable... 1 month of DJ techniques vs 10 months of AFC behavior... pfft... what do you expect...
During the month when I was DJing her (more eye contact, touching, teasing her, being ****y and funny, etc...), one day, she told me that I've been acting different lately... and its CREEPING HER OUT. and told me bluntly:
"Forget it. Stop trying to make me into your girlfriend. Can't we just be friends?!?"
And then I got so pissed off... and since then, we havent talked... Damn... if only... I learned about the DJ way of life A YEAR EARLIER, she should've been MINE...
As in... if I DJed her (even at my current newbie skill level I am at today) since September of 2003, until April of 2004... I would bet my last dollar...
SHE WOULD BE COMPLETELY SEDUCED. SHE WOULD BE ON HER KNEES BEGGING ME!!!
I swear... any newb DJ can take her... Take note: This was a chick who approached me even if I am a "hater" type of AFC
Click Here
Senior Don Juan
So it was my sophmore year, i was an incredible AFC. Of course i didn't realize it at the time, i thought i was just like a hopeless romantic, no pun intended.
My friend was also a big AFC, and had a crush on this one chick. One day i find out he got her number, i was like WHOA. Then he didn't call her that night, and the next day she was a B*tch to him, so he nexted her.
I was in complete shock about this. Talking to him online he sent me an e-mail that contained the greatest thing i had ever read at the time. Pooks- How to be a man.
Nothing in my entire life struck a cord with me as much as that e-mail did. At the time he wasn't telling me where he got it from. But after i read that e-mail i was a changed man. He sent me another e-mail and i forget what it was, but it was also very insigtful. It was not till a week later, i didn't even beg, that he showed me SS.com. I still feel utterely thankful for what he did.
And never look back since.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
heres the link
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?threadid=141989
4025 replies as write this and im sure they had one beofre that was even bigger
That was the beginning. I was extremely frustrated with women (senior in HS) and I had no idea what was wrong with me b/c of media brainwashing. I was desperate for some info. So after opening my mind with that article, I stumbled on the Doc Love archive at www.askmen.com/dating/doclove , which pretty much put me on the road to becoming a DJ. Finally, somebody mentioned this site to me and I just got around to reading the bible a month ago.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.