"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How'd I do? She was making me chase, I shut it down

hockeyfreak79

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Yeah she's definitely trying to get you to chase. Sh*t 5 months & she's saying she doesn't think it's going to work. Smh, at this point if her IL was high she would be testing you with questions about possible spring break vacations or weekend get aways not giving you drama & bullsh*t. You held your ground but there's enough signs here.

IME/IMO 4-5 month range is when the start throwing the L word around, if of course there IL is that high. She sounds like an introverted chick thats putting up walls for sure. She's not tingling like before, she could be doing you favor dude. She flat out told you she doesn't think it's going to work & she is to messed up to be with someone. It almost sounds like she wants you to dump her.....I've met a few jems like that. Is that bad that I enjoy making broads cry sometimes? I don't give 2fvcks, not a woman hater! I love em all!

You fed her a bunch of logic, all she heard was blah blah blah.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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