"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How'd I do? She was making me chase, I shut it down

hockeyfreak79

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Yeah she's definitely trying to get you to chase. Sh*t 5 months & she's saying she doesn't think it's going to work. Smh, at this point if her IL was high she would be testing you with questions about possible spring break vacations or weekend get aways not giving you drama & bullsh*t. You held your ground but there's enough signs here.

IME/IMO 4-5 month range is when the start throwing the L word around, if of course there IL is that high. She sounds like an introverted chick thats putting up walls for sure. She's not tingling like before, she could be doing you favor dude. She flat out told you she doesn't think it's going to work & she is to messed up to be with someone. It almost sounds like she wants you to dump her.....I've met a few jems like that. Is that bad that I enjoy making broads cry sometimes? I don't give 2fvcks, not a woman hater! I love em all!

You fed her a bunch of logic, all she heard was blah blah blah.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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