Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How young is too young?

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I went out with my friend last Saturday drinking, we shared a bottle of Jack Daniels at my place and finished it while chatting outside near the club. We get even more wasted inside, hop to a couple other places and when it's time to leave we get split up. I go off with two girls and never see him again.

Turns out some girl asked him to buy some alcohol for her as she couldn't get served - to cut a long story short he ends up smashing this girl in our local park, without a condom. She told him she was 18 but I spoke to him today and the girl is now saying she's 17 and wanted to go out and drink with him earlier this week on Tuesday.

I told him to stop talking to her, then at the end of the convo I said told him to invite her and a friend to my place Friday and we can drink there. I don't know why I said it but I did. Is 17 too young to smash? I personally think it's fine.

Disclaimer: legal age of consent in the UK is 16 years old so nothing illegal here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If he is 22 or younger I would say it's fine, but that's according to my own personal morals.
At 28 the youngest i'd date right now is 20.

But he's not braking any laws AFAIC he can do as he pleases. If it bothers you don't be around it but it you choose to be around him & her don't sit there judging.
 

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We are both 29 and both most likely going to smash, no rules.
 

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If he is 22 or younger I would say it's fine, but that's according to my own personal morals.
At 28 the youngest i'd date right now is 20.

But he's not braking any laws AFAIC he can do as he pleases. If it bothers you don't be around it but it you choose to be around him & her don't sit there judging.
21 is a safer bottom end due to alcohol
 
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Too young is below the age of consent.

I always try to stay a little bit above that. I'm 25
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When you smash a drinking 17 year old or any teen girl Without a condom, the odds of getting an unwanted pregnancy in your life rise enormously…
At that age many girls are not completely serious about their birth control yet, if they have any, then combine that with their reduced inhibitions via the alcohol and it becomes a gamble…
Wrap it
 
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the youngest you should worry about is as young as law says so, jsut so you don't go for jail for stupid sh!t, wrap things up and go for it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I went out with my friend last Saturday drinking, we shared a bottle of Jack Daniels at my place and finished it while chatting outside near the club. We get even more wasted inside, hop to a couple other places and when it's time to leave we get split up. I go off with two girls and never see him again.

Turns out some girl asked him to buy some alcohol for her as she couldn't get served - to cut a long story short he ends up smashing this girl in our local park, without a condom. She told him she was 18 but I spoke to him today and the girl is now saying she's 17 and wanted to go out and drink with him earlier this week on Tuesday.

I told him to stop talking to her, then at the end of the convo I said told him to invite her and a friend to my place Friday and we can drink there. I don't know why I said it but I did. Is 17 too young to smash? I personally think it's fine.

Disclaimer: legal age of consent in the UK is 16 years old so nothing illegal here.

so long as its legal (as you stated) , I think its fine...I wish i could lol
 

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I banged a 20 year old from Bumble 2 weeks ago. She was a massive wh0re though and seemed more like a 24 year old. She even told me she needed to get condoms because she was going on another date the next day. I did enjoy the doggy though and thinking about how young she was. We both came twice. She sucked a mean d!ck and loved me wiping it on her face mid BJ. HB 6.5 though but good body, just a total wh0re.
 

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I banged a 20 year old from Bumble 2 weeks ago. She was a massive wh0re though and seemed more like a 24 year old. She even told me she needed to get condoms because she was going on another date the next day. I did enjoy the doggy though and thinking about how young she was. We both came twice. She sucked a mean d!ck and loved me wiping it on her face mid BJ. HB 6.5 though but good body, just a total wh0re.
Why risk catching something when you hear that from a female cvm depository? I mean, come on bro. You're just asking to catch Herpes or HPV.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Didn't know until after I came inside her the first time (she had an implant). Plus I'm wreckless and just don't care.
 

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Smart. Trust me, when you catch Herpes and have them all over your penis head, you will care. Think before fvcking.
I know that now and I'm trying to live better. Shes the last sex I had and I plan on a few months of self reflection, lifting and working hard. I'm in a new phase of my life.
 

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I went out with my friend last Saturday drinking, we shared a bottle of Jack Daniels at my place and finished it while chatting outside near the club. We get even more wasted inside, hop to a couple other places and when it's time to leave we get split up. I go off with two girls and never see him again.

Turns out some girl asked him to buy some alcohol for her as she couldn't get served - to cut a long story short he ends up smashing this girl in our local park, without a condom. She told him she was 18 but I spoke to him today and the girl is now saying she's 17 and wanted to go out and drink with him earlier this week on Tuesday.

I told him to stop talking to her, then at the end of the convo I said told him to invite her and a friend to my place Friday and we can drink there. I don't know why I said it but I did. Is 17 too young to smash? I personally think it's fine.

Disclaimer: legal age of consent in the UK is 16 years old so nothing illegal here.
21-28 is the age range I usually pull from and I'll be 40 in July. Whatever floats your boat, so long as it's legal and you can tolerate the ignorance and stupidity. Might be a good idea to keep in mind that under legal drinking age can get you a contributing or even an endangerment of a minor, depending on your local laws. Both are felonies in my state. Getting your door kicked in or party busted up happens.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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