“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How You Control Who Likes You.

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Great post. Reminded me how cold I can be sometimes if I'm worried about acceptance. Will definitely be a warm, acceptance-expecting gent next time I'm out.
 

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I agree with this 100%. When I'm out by myself at a bar, I can make friends pretty quickly. I'm not sure how this theory would affect attraction with women though. There's plenty of guys who have girls hanging around them but it doesn't mean they're necessarily banging them.
 

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you ever hear anyone here say "Assume she is attracted to you, assume attraction". I find that when i do this is reduces rejection and you are more loose and act more friendly towards the person you are trying to talk to.
 

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JohnChops said:
you ever hear anyone here say "Assume she is attracted to you, assume attraction". I find that when i do this is reduces rejection and you are more loose and act more friendly towards the person you are trying to talk to.
Now, how to assume attraction and TRULY believe it? Just made a post about this in DJ discussion. Would be good to have you weigh in.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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