"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How You Control Who Likes You.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Great post. Reminded me how cold I can be sometimes if I'm worried about acceptance. Will definitely be a warm, acceptance-expecting gent next time I'm out.
 
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I agree with this 100%. When I'm out by myself at a bar, I can make friends pretty quickly. I'm not sure how this theory would affect attraction with women though. There's plenty of guys who have girls hanging around them but it doesn't mean they're necessarily banging them.
 
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you ever hear anyone here say "Assume she is attracted to you, assume attraction". I find that when i do this is reduces rejection and you are more loose and act more friendly towards the person you are trying to talk to.
 
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JohnChops said:
you ever hear anyone here say "Assume she is attracted to you, assume attraction". I find that when i do this is reduces rejection and you are more loose and act more friendly towards the person you are trying to talk to.
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Now, how to assume attraction and TRULY believe it? Just made a post about this in DJ discussion. Would be good to have you weigh in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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