Naughty Ninja
Banned
How would you feel if the women you write about read your posts on so suave?
Would you care?
Would you care?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How woulf you feel if the women you write about read your posts?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Considering that my threads have mostly been about girls I have banged and I just made one about how I am keeping all of my girls I'm currently working on through online dating in a spreadsheet to keep track of them (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1774262#post1774262), I think if any of them saw it, I would be in deep trouble.
Especially girl no. 14 who I banged on Saturday night on the first night, if she knew I was planning to meet up with a girl on Tuesday night, another on Friday night (2nd date) and two more on Saturday arvo / night, I think I would know what she would think.
Especially girl no. 14 who I banged on Saturday night on the first night, if she knew I was planning to meet up with a girl on Tuesday night, another on Friday night (2nd date) and two more on Saturday arvo / night, I think I would know what she would think.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Senior Don Juan
one of these prospective girls would probably not appreciate me telling everyone that my first time was with a stupid ***** on her period and blasting in her face. other than that, these *****es dont speak english over here anyway.
but this place is much better than the venusian arts forum. ****
but this place is much better than the venusian arts forum. ****