Naughty Ninja
Banned
How would you feel if the women you write about read your posts on so suave?
Would you care?
Would you care?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How woulf you feel if the women you write about read your posts?
- Thread starter Naughty Ninja
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Considering that my threads have mostly been about girls I have banged and I just made one about how I am keeping all of my girls I'm currently working on through online dating in a spreadsheet to keep track of them (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1774262#post1774262), I think if any of them saw it, I would be in deep trouble.
Especially girl no. 14 who I banged on Saturday night on the first night, if she knew I was planning to meet up with a girl on Tuesday night, another on Friday night (2nd date) and two more on Saturday arvo / night, I think I would know what she would think.
Especially girl no. 14 who I banged on Saturday night on the first night, if she knew I was planning to meet up with a girl on Tuesday night, another on Friday night (2nd date) and two more on Saturday arvo / night, I think I would know what she would think.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
one of these prospective girls would probably not appreciate me telling everyone that my first time was with a stupid ***** on her period and blasting in her face. other than that, these *****es dont speak english over here anyway.
but this place is much better than the venusian arts forum. ****
but this place is much better than the venusian arts forum. ****