"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how would you try to convince a woman who changes her mind?

mark9

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DO women deliberatelly inform the other person that she is dated someone else and it did not work out ? or is she sending any other message? What are the chances that a tall woman will find a date? I thought man find tall chicks repulsive.. am I right on that?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't read anything into what she said, base how well you are doing with her by how she treats you.

I think tall women rock, they need to be slim or athletic though, don't want a tall woman with a build like Shaq.
 

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thanks

that was nice of ya to reply. thank you and I will definitely keep that in mind. are
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
...athletic though, don't want a tall woman with a build like Shaq.
Or has a weiner for that matter.



About your first question. I say that she is giving you a heads up on that one. Not that you should really care if you only want to date.
 

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That's a very vague narrative mark9. So this lady told you she dated someone and it didn't work out?

Stop the presses! This has never happened before, I say you dump her now!

All kidding aside, did she say WHY it didn't work out?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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