"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how would you try to convince a woman who changes her mind?

mark9

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DO women deliberatelly inform the other person that she is dated someone else and it did not work out ? or is she sending any other message? What are the chances that a tall woman will find a date? I thought man find tall chicks repulsive.. am I right on that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't read anything into what she said, base how well you are doing with her by how she treats you.

I think tall women rock, they need to be slim or athletic though, don't want a tall woman with a build like Shaq.
 

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thanks

that was nice of ya to reply. thank you and I will definitely keep that in mind. are
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
...athletic though, don't want a tall woman with a build like Shaq.
Or has a weiner for that matter.



About your first question. I say that she is giving you a heads up on that one. Not that you should really care if you only want to date.
 

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That's a very vague narrative mark9. So this lady told you she dated someone and it didn't work out?

Stop the presses! This has never happened before, I say you dump her now!

All kidding aside, did she say WHY it didn't work out?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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