How would you take this??

MountainSlide

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I hung out with this girl like three times, smashed, etc. She left some **** at my house last night then I was talking to her today on the phone because she needs to come pick it up. When I was getting off the phone she says “love you... bye”.

She’s not going stage 5 on me is she???
 
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I hung out with this girl like three times, smashed, etc. She left some **** at my house last night then I was talking to her today on the phone because she needs to come pick it up. When I was getting off the phone she says “love you... bye”.

She’s not going stage 5 on me is she???
3 times and she breaks out the L word? Yep. That is a stage 5.
 

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3 times and she breaks out the L word? Yep. That is a stage 5.
Use it to your advantage. If you're not going to really be in a relationship with her, let her think you're at least considering it. Then you really get her to do whatever the hell you want. If she really takes it like a champ for a long time, maybe you consider something more serious.
 

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Tell her to get her **** out of your house, she'll be moving in within a month if you let her continue with this. Yes she is stage 5.
 
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Use it to your advantage. If you're not going to really be in a relationship with her, let her think you're at least considering it. Then you really get her to do whatever the hell you want. If she really takes it like a champ for a long time, maybe you consider something more serious.
You just described what a don juan is supposed to do in all his relationships. Remember your job is to get laid. Hers is to work on the relationship.
 

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Dont trip bro. As long as she is giving u the girlfriend treatment and being respectful of you, pedestalling you, doing things for you like bringing food paying for stuff, giving sex easy etc. let her drop the i love you’s on you and just be playful and alpha with her. If shes hot and not annoying. Dont be beta dont fall and become weak
 

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Men do this a the time! They leave stuff at my apartment by mistake. They bring something over and ask if they can leave it there. Or they say they “got me something “ and want to leave it here. I tell them all the same thing, “anything you leave here will be thrown out.” And then I have followed through. They use it as a way to stay connected or an excuse to come back. Drives me crazy. I once threw away a library book that a guy brought over and said “i should read.” I told him i was not interested (it was conspiracy theories). He was being pushy about it (this tactic annoys me). I warned him about my policy of throwing things away that people left here. He insisted. And i trashed it soon as he left. Hopefully he got fined. Her doing that and the “i love you’s” are her way to control you. Men do the “i think i am falling for you” or “you are perfect for me” crap too. It’s BS. It’s always false because they don’t even know me yet. I don’t accept that kind of talk under six months to a year.
 
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